Double your dating kiss test
If I've been talking to a girl and want to know if she's ready to be kissed, I'll reach over and touch her hair while we're talking and make a comment about it. I'll say "Your hair looks so soft" and just touch the tips of it. PUA: Hey guys, we’re having a debate and need a quick opinion on something. GROUP: (the responses will vary, but if any guys say “no,” you can bust on them for having a double-standard etc.) PUA: Okay. The reason I’m asking is because my friend over there has been dating this girl.If a guy is dating a girl, and she goes out to a bar with her friends one night and makes out with a guy just for fun, is it cheating? And she likes to go out and get drunk and make out with girls. GROUP: (discussion ensues, which you will have to soon cut off and move into your next piece of material because they will go on and on about this and stale the topic and conversation) Enjoy.
Keeping in mind these two aspects of human nature, we can therefore conclude that in order for someone to love us, we must make them happy and we must be valuable to them.
If it was possible to perform a few magical steps in order to make a girl fall in love with you, we would live in a harsh world of broken hearts. In my experience, the more you try to make a girl fall in love you, the less she will.
Its kind of a catch-22 in that way but fortunately there are two aspects you can concentrate on to help you along the way.
The things you love the most consequently have a lot of value. Things that are replaceable, or are easily attainable have little value in our lives.
So make yourself valuable and people will love you. The concept of value is relative, in an organization, the most valuable person is the boss even if in another situation, he could be completely insignificant.