Many years ago, a guy friend said something that completely changed the way I viewed sex and relationships.
He said: “Before a girl sleeps with a guy, she has all the power.
Before the date she told me she was a little unsure about this guy.
She thought he was great on paper and all but she didn’t really feel like they had so much to talk about, she mostly just thought he was really hot.
She decided she was gonna sleep with him after their third date and I didn’t really offer much in the way of advice since it didn’t seem like she was interested in having a real relationship with him.
My friend told me that she was waiting for him to ask her out for that Saturday night because she had purchased tickets to a booze cruise and thought that would make a fun date.
There will be some women who will argue with this fact, and counter by saying they know tons of women who enjoy casual sex and lots of men who are yearning for commitment.
Yes, there are people like this, but I’m speaking about the rule, not the exceptions.
It was a pretty open and shut case, probably one of the easiest relationship questions brought to me. Yeah, he was attracted and somewhat interested, but after sex was in the mix, he lost interest in pursuing things further.I’ve dated guys like that, the ones who were ready to marry me on the first date, and I wasn’t flattered…I was freaked out.The truth is, deciding when to sleep with a guy is important and will have an impact on your relationship. No girl has ever lost interest in a guy because he slept with her on the first date while guys lose interest in girls all the time for giving it up too soon.They had an amazing time on the date, they continued to message, and he asked her out for the following Saturday early in the week.Another nice date with pleasant conversation and enjoying each other’s company (and some passionate making out) and he again reserved her for the following Saturday night.